Reading Bedtime Stories Over Messaging Apps
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Many grandparents across New Zealand have family living in Australia, the United Kingdom or further afield. Distance does not have to mean missing out on bedtime. With a smartphone or tablet and a free messaging app, you can read stories to your grandchildren and stay part of their evening routine, no matter how many time zones lie between you.
Choosing the Right App
Popular options include WhatsApp, Facebook Messenger, FaceTime and Zoom. Most offer free video calls over Wi-Fi, so you will not use your mobile data. Choose the app your family already uses, as this makes setting up much easier. Ask a family member to help you install it and add their contact details.
Live Video Reading
A live video call lets your grandchild see your face and the pictures as you read. Hold the book beside the camera, or share your screen if you are reading an e-book. Agree on a regular time, such as just before their bedtime, so the ritual becomes something they look forward to. Time differences can be large, so always check the local time before you call.
Recorded Voice Messages
If schedules do not match, record a voice message instead. Most messaging apps let you hold down a microphone button and read a page or a whole short story. Your grandchild can play it at bedtime as often as they like, and hearing your familiar voice is a comfort even when you cannot be there.
Tips for a Smooth Story Time
Find a quiet spot with good lighting and a steady Wi-Fi connection. Prop your device on a stand or stack of books so your hands are free to turn pages. Use expressive voices, pause to ask questions, and let your grandchild choose the book. Library books, family favourites and picture books in te reo Māori all make lovely choices. Many NZ libraries also offer free e-books through digital services.
Staying Safe Online
Keep your apps updated, use a strong password, and only accept contact requests from people you know. Never share personal details or banking information in a chat. If something looks suspicious, ask a trusted family member before you reply.
Bringing Families Closer
Reading bedtime stories over messaging apps is a simple, affordable way to build lasting memories with your grandchildren. Start small, be patient with the technology, and enjoy the smiles. Before long, story time will feel as close as sitting beside them. Why not send a hello message to your grandchildren tonight and suggest a story time this weekend?
