Your Right to Make Your Own Decisions as You Age
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Growing older does not mean giving up control of your life. In New Zealand, every adult has the right to make their own decisions about their health, money, home and daily routines. That right stays with you at every age, and knowing how it works can help you feel confident and protected.
You are presumed capable
The law assumes you can make your own decisions unless there is clear evidence otherwise. Being older, living with a disability or having the occasional memory slip does not automatically mean you cannot decide for yourself. If you do need help, you should be supported to make the choice yourself wherever possible. That might mean having information explained in plain language, taking extra time, or having a trusted friend or whānau member sit with you during important conversations.
Your rights in healthcare
The Code of Health and Disability Services Consumers’ Rights gives you the right to clear information about your treatment, the chance to ask questions, and the right to say yes or no. This is often called informed consent. You can change your mind at any time, and you can ask for a second opinion. A doctor or nurse should explain your options in a way you understand, and you are welcome to bring a support person along.
Planning ahead gives you a voice later
Many seniors choose to set up an enduring power of attorney while they are well. In New Zealand there are two types, one for property and one for personal care and welfare. These let you choose someone you trust to act for you if you ever lose the ability to decide. It is also worth talking with your family about your wishes for future care, sometimes called advance care planning, and keeping your will up to date. A lawyer can explain the options and help you put them in place.
When others try to take over
Sometimes well-meaning family members or others start making choices for you without asking. If you are being pressured about your money, your home or your care, you do not have to accept it. The law only allows a court to step in as a last resort, and any order should be as limited as possible. If something does not feel right, you can contact the Elder Abuse Response Service on 0800 32 668 65, Age Concern, or the Health and Disability Commissioner on 0800 11 22 33.
