Is Staying Home the Right Choice for You?
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Home is more than a roof over our heads. It holds decades of memories, familiar neighbours and a sense of independence. It is no surprise that ageing in place, which means staying in your own home as you grow older, is a popular choice across Aotearoa. But is it the right one for you?
The Benefits of Ageing in Place
Staying put can help you keep your routines, your community and your connection to the people and places you love. Many seniors find that remaining in a familiar space supports their wellbeing and confidence. There can also be financial advantages, as moving into a retirement village or residential care often involves significant costs. Staying home may give you more control over your budget and your lifestyle.
Things to Consider Honestly
Ageing in place works best when your home suits your changing needs. Think about stairs, slippery showers, narrow hallways and hard-to-reach cupboards. A cold, damp house can also affect health, which matters in our changeable New Zealand climate. Consider how you would manage home maintenance, gardening and meal preparation if your energy or mobility changes. Loneliness is another factor, especially if family live far away or you no longer drive.
Ways to Make Your Home Work for You
Small changes can make a big difference. Handrails, better lighting, non-slip flooring and a level-entry shower can improve safety. Heating and insulation can keep your home warm and dry. Many seniors also benefit from home support services such as help with cleaning, personal care or delivered meals. Local councils, community groups and organisations like Age Concern New Zealand can point you towards services and social activities in your area. It is also worth speaking to Work and Income or your GP about what support may be available.
Questions to Ask Yourself
Do I feel safe and comfortable at home? Can I get to shops, medical appointments and friends easily? Do I have people nearby I can call on? Is my home affordable to run and maintain? Planning ahead, rather than waiting for a crisis, gives you more choice and peace of mind.
Talk It Through
There is no single right answer. The best decision is the one that fits your health, finances and priorities. Talk openly with family, your doctor and trusted advisers, and revisit the choice as your needs change.
